by admin | Aug 1, 2024 | family mediation
People often say that marriage is hard. But is it really marriage that is hard, or is it paying attention that is hard? The hard thing to do and the right thing to do are always the same. In any relationship, paying attention to your partner’s needs, feelings,...
by admin | Jul 24, 2024 | family mediation
Every Moment of Marriage is Not Fun Early in a relationship, we idealize fun, closeness, warmth, and generally, sex. I refer to this collectively as “chocolate cake.” Why? Because chocolate cake is special. And because chocolate cake is special, we don’t necessarily...